HARRAHKIDS LOVES WERAKIDS
HOW TO GET YOUR KIDS INVOLVED?
His Great Commission, Jesus commands us as believers to go and tell others of His love and forgiveness. It is exciting to be a part of reaching the world, but how do you get started? Giving your family the ability to see beyond them self & point others to Christ is one of the greatest gifts they will ever receive.
Your family can make a difference.
1. HarrahKIDS Ministry is adopting a child. December 11th, your child will decorate cookies in their classrooms. These cookies will be available after each service for a donation. All donations will go towards supporting a child in Wera.
2. Encourage your child to bring pennies to bills for offering in their classrooms. Normally, 1/2 of the offerings are put into the kids mission funds. During the Month of December, 100% of the offerings received will also go towards supporting a child in Wera & the missions.
3. Pray together as a family. The kids in Wera are living in a war daily. They are faced with family loses, malnutrition, war crimes, & many other things that we cannot imagine our own children would ever have to experience, just to survive each day. Pray for the safety of the missionaries going there & that are there now. Pray that the gospel will change lives in Wera.
Jesus came to the world in order to bring the gift of salvation to humanity. He displayed grace in a big way! What are we to do with this grace?
Connecting to their world…
Teach your child about missions and cultures.
a. Sponsor a child to support monthly. Write letters to them & send pictures.
b. Get out a map of the world and ask your children, “If we could go anywhere in the world (including our own town) and tell other children about Jesus, where would you like for us to go?” It really helps them visualize how big the world is and how many people don’t know Jesus.
c. Show pictures of people in other countries & how they live in other countries
d. Read biographies of missionaries to your children. Watch videos on different countries. Read about martyrs and others who have suffered for believing in Jesus. A good website that offers these is kidsofcourage.com Post pictures of the kids & mission teams on the refrigerator, lay them on the kitchen table or put them on the children’s bathroom mirror so they can be praying for them often.
e. Encourage your child to set aside a portion of their own money. Put any change you receive from purchases throughout the year in a clear container, like in a clear glass jar. Give it to a mission event or family mission project. This is a visible way to teach children the priority of giving.
Model for your children the importance of missions. Being missional needs to start with you. Children will often model what they see. If your child see you treasuring money, possessions and the American dream, then they will too. However, if children see their parents treasuring Christ & telling others of His love and forgiveness, then hopefully they will too. Be their visible example.
“And he will answer,
‘I tell you the truth, when you refused to help the least of these my brothers and sisters, you were refusing to help me.’
Mathew 25:45 NLT
Meaningful discussion with your child
If you want to have interesting conversations with your kids, ask open-ended questions.
Closed questions require a one or two-word response or even as little as a nod of the head. They can also be the type that are right or wrong answers, making kids feel as if they’re being quizzed.
Closed questions:
- What’s your favorite color?
- Is that your toy?
- Are you hungry?
Open-Ended Questions invite kids to imagine, elaborate, and tell stories. You’ll get more information and get to know your child better when you ask open-ended questions. They let children think and solve problems.
Open-ended questions:
- What do you think will happen now?
- If you were the cook, what would you fix us for dinner?
- If you were the mayor of our city, what would you do first?
Open-Ended questions allow children to express whatever they’re thinking. They don’t demand a response, but leave space for the child to answer thoughtfully. It encourages creative thinking, problem solving and imagination. Plus, when you take the time to listen to a longer answer, you are sending a strong non-verbal message that you value your child and his thoughts and ideas.
Asking open-ended questions is a habit you can form with a few tricks. You can either print up a list of questions to use as a cheat sheet, or just experiment.
Here are some common ways to start an open-ended question:
- What would happen if…
- wonder…
- What do you think about…
- In what way…
- Tell me about…
- What would you do…
- How can we…
- How did you…
Not only will this technique help you develope a great relationship with your kids, but it’s also teaching them how to communicate effectively with others.
By mastering open-ended questions you bond and teach at the same time.
Bonus: Open-ended questions encourage children to recall what they’ve done and practice talking about it. This encourages their language development and may even get them ready for those SAT essays.
Getting Accurate Information:
Sometimes as parents we assume something’s going on that may not be. We need to be careful not to project our assumptions onto the situation with closed questions. Early childhood development expert Maren Schmidt states:
“We need to choose our words carefully and frame our questions even more so. Inadvertently we can plant ideas with our questions, and redirect or distort our children’s attention and perception.
Sometimes the situation seems cut and dried. I know I feel like sometimes I just need that yes or no answer. But when I really look at it, sometimes I’m looking to pin something on my kids.
Look what happens when we use Maren’s method of transforming closed questions to open-ended ones:
Closed: Did you hit your brother?
Open: Why is your brother crying? Tell me what happened.
Closed: Did you make this mess?
Open: What can you tell me about this spilled paint?
Closed: Did you take a bath?
Open: When were you planning on taking a bath?
This skill is crucial to all of us. Do your kids a favor and model it for them while they’re young.
If your kids are no longer young, it is never to late to start engaging in meaningful discussions with your child.